Friends Forever (At least Through Freshman Year)
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Name: David Aaron White
Year: Freshman
Hometown: Moorestown, New Jersey
Major: Writing Seminars
On December 15th, 2011, I eagerly awaited the message that determined where I would spend the next four years of my life. At approximately 6:37 p.m., after having hit the “refresh” button in my school inbox several times, I received an email from Johns Hopkins University with the subject heading I had been waiting for: Congratulations!
Don’t get me wrong: I was incredibly excited to have gained acceptance to JHU. However, my good friend Tyler Knowlton had also applied to JHU Early Decision, and I had not yet heard from him. As a born pessimist, I naturally assumed the worst: I hadn’t heard from Tyler because he had died in a car crash and couldn’t inform me about his acceptance to Hopkins. So, while my mother jumped for joy, while my father called my grandparents, and while my twin brother shared my relief (he had been accepted to Dartmouth five days earlier), I bit my nails and twiddled my thumbs. I didn’t post a Facebook status celebrating my acceptance out of respect for my friend, yet every nearly congratulatory remark that made it my way was accompanied by another question: “Did anyone else from your school get in?”
Finally, at about 7:15 p.m., my phone buzzed with the fateful message from Tyler:
“IS IT POSSIBLE? ROOMMATES!” It took me a minute to process this. However, I soon realized that Tyler was broadcasting his acceptance to the school of our dreams, and I was immensely relieved and could finally start celebrating.
Tyler and I had known each other since we were in sixth grade at Moorestown Friends School. Yet, we experienced our closest brotherhood during our freshman year of high school, during which he opened his doors to me and my brother, and we had many good times following that pivotal evening spent playing Rock Band in his attic. We made films together, studied together, and even served as each other’s wingmen at parties. Knowing that I would be attending college with Tyler filled me with enough joy to make up for the sadness of my childhood coming to an end.
Though Tyler and I did not end up rooming together, we do have the same core group of friends at school, largely thanks to our pre-orientation trip that we took before school started. Of course, we’ve each met other people and made separate friends, but I’m frankly proud of the fact that we’re still so close. Quite a few people back home said that we’d “split up,” or “grow apart,” but that has proven to NOT be the case. Sure, Tyler has an amazing girlfriend, but we’re still as close as ever. We even ran a pretty successful campaign at the beginning of the year for class senate, garnering just about 2% of the freshman class’ vote. Having Tyler with me in college has definitely added—not subtracted—to my experience at Hopkins.
I think that my experience can show you that, if you are close friends with someone prior to arriving at college together, you are under no obligation to “move on” from that person just because you want to meet new people. Why not have both? I’ve managed to have both: I’ve met some lovely people, including Hopkins Interactive’s Zoe Jack, enjoyed my classes, and taken steps down a path that I hope will furnish my academic and occupational careers. I’ve also maintained—if not grown—my friendship with Tyler, so I believe that I serve as proof that good friends can withstand the college transition. Of course, I bet it doesn’t hurt that Tyler and I live right next door to each other.










































