Saying that my first month of my senior year has been topsy-turvy might be an understatement. For one thing, I’ve been doing the usual balancing act of managing classes, research, work, and extracurricular activities that I’ve been maintaining since my freshman year–and as this blog has testified over the years, that alone can become hectic at times. As humans since the beginning of time have known, as recurring themes in history have demonstrated, and as even recurring story lines in literature have discussed, unforeseen events are always happening, and plans are always in need of adjustments because of unexpected problems popping up.
That could sum up my first month of the school year.
Before I sound like a mood dampener, I will clarify that despite how crazy this month has been (or maybe even because of it), it has flown by quickly, and it has been (bizarrely) enjoyable nonetheless! Then again, it might not have anything to do with what’s happened this month so much as the fact that I try to be what people call a realistic optimist. Well, I guess you could read this entry and figure it out for yourself.
For instance, I’ve had apartment-related issues ever since I moved into my apartment at Homewood Apartments during an early move-in period at the end of August, since I assisted with this year’s freshman orientation as a “Family Ambassador” (so I talked to a lot of parents at many of the parent-oriented events and answered whatever questions they had about student life at Hopkins). The kitchen ceiling started leaking whenever it rained outside (and it still does), the bathroom toilet was leaky (and it still is), ceiling lights throughout the apartment flickered, and so on. I must say, however, that because Homewood Apartments is a University-owned apartment building, the maintenance staff has been pretty helpful in attending to the numerous maintenance requests that my roommate and I have been making. Regarding the leaky kitchen ceiling alone, the maintenance staff has made at least three or four visits over the past month and making phone calls to roof repairmen to determine what needs to be done. (After living in an off-campus apartment last year as a junior, I must say that it’s easy to take for granted just how convenient living in University-owned housing can be, especially with regards to maintenance-related issues!)
Meanwhile, there are the microbial creatures lurking out there in the world. While I think the stuffed animal renditions of E. coli and Salmonella and other microscopic pathogens that I’ve seen being sold in stores and online are adorable, they’re not fun in real life! (For instance, read JHU_Wafa’s most recent blog entry about the flu.) I became sick with strep throat a little over three weeks ago, and I ended up having to spend the latter half of that week in my room. I even ended up having to miss an annual back-to-school potluck I had helped organize for the Filipino Students Association (I had been working on the logistics for that event since the summer), and I had to help run it by sending text messages and making phone calls from my room. In addition, I was sick last week with a pretty bad cold and had to take it easy for a few days towards the end of last week as well. Last, but not least, since many other students here at Hopkins have been sick with H1N1, the “regular” flu, strep throat, or colds, quite a few events that I’ve helped organize have had to undergo some restructuring because of people being sick and not being able to help out as they had planned.
I had thought all of that was crazy enough, but then Typhoon Ondoy (its international name is Typhoon Ketsana) hit central Luzon of the Philippines on Saturday this past weekend. (Luzon is the northernmost major island of the Philippine archipelago.) To summarize quickly what happened, the typhoon dumped several hours’ worth of rain on the capital Manila, Metro Manila (a political administrative area that consists of Manila itself and some cities that immediately surround Manila), and a few provinces right outside Metro Manila, especially the province Rizal. The total amount of rain that fell on Saturday was more than what Hurricane Katrina had dumped a few years ago. Meanwhile, ever since Saturday, there has been a lot of flooding, not to mention a few mudslides, in Metro Manila and the surrounding provinces. Property has been destroyed, and flowing water and electricity has been cut off in some areas. In short, the typhoon wreaked havoc, in addition to killing many people (the current death toll is 246 and counting) and displacing many others (about 400,000+ people are estimated to have been displaced, and it’s not certain how many people are still missing). (For a news article with some more background information, click HERE.) According to news articles I’ve read, Ketsana (which has subsided from a typhoon to a tropical storm, and from a tropical storm to a tropical depression) seems to be doing some damage in Vietnam and Cambodia as well. (For news articles, click HERE and HERE.)
I have numerous relatives who live right in the middle of the flooding in Metro Manila, including many first-degree aunts, uncles, and cousins. Many of my family friends also have relatives from the areas affected by the typhoon. The past few days were an emotional roller coaster of trying to figure out where everyone was and how everyone was doing, and it involved lots of communication with my parents, members of my extended family who aren’t in the Philippines at the moment, and quite a few of my family friends. It was an extremely harrowing experience for all of us. I wouldn’t want to wish the up-and-down cascade of emotions I felt this weekend on anyone. I only found out just around 36 hours ago that all of my relatives are alive and safe. (The amount of property damage they’ve suffered is another story, but that’s nothing compared to the fact that they’re alive.) Many of my family friends have also learned not too long ago that their relatives are safe, but there are still people I know who know families with still-missing individuals.
And yet, somehow, I’ve been able to scrape by through all of that in terms of maintaining my usual academic, work, research, and extracurricular obligations. Granted, I’ve had to take a few days off here and ask for some extensions there, but I haven’t found myself needing to shut down completely at any point. (Whew!)
As I hope you’ve been able to notice, while there have been quite a few unforeseen setbacks over the past month ranging from the benign to the emotionally distressing, I’ve been able to manage them on the most part so far–not to mention that (thankfully) they have been resolved well or they are in the middle of being resolved. Furthermore, as I’ve noticed many times over the past three years (and one month) that I’ve spent at Hopkins, I’ve had a good group of close friends here at Hopkins (and also some from home with whom I’ve been keeping in touch over the phone or online) who have been helpful in many ways, as they’ve been so many times before. And, of course, keeping in touch with my parents at home has been very helpful, too. I’m very grateful to all of these people. I suppose the take-home lesson from this blog entry is that anything can happen while you’re away from home at college; however, a good support system comprised of family and friends who are both there at college with you as well as in other parts of the nation (or the globe) but a mere phone call away can help you go through it. (I know this from experience, and I know many other people who could testify to this fact as well.) Plus, things will work out somehow in the end. What if matters still don’t quite resolve themselves the way you want them to? You still have your support system.
Now that is what I call a wonderful thing to know.
N.B. I found the images that are used in this blog entry via Google Image Search.